DISCLAIMER: This is for matured minds who dosen't see sex primarily as a
tool for catching fun and showing your love for someone.
Do you
know why most relationships and marriages fail today? Why people date
multiple partners within a short period of time? It's because people
left what they ought to be doing and focused all their energy more on
emotions, feelings and SEX. People today think that the only stage to a
relationship is attraction and boom, next thing is sleeping together.
Sex is being promoted so much that partners miss all the other stages of
relationship that would have given them a solid and lasting experience.
Intimacy ought not to be all about sex because you can't sustain it.
Once it wears out, both parties are left with nothing to hold onto
that's when a guy starts looking for a new adventure, and the lady gets
drowned into emotional downward spiral.
Relationships are meant to
be gradual thing, think of when you were kids, how being around each
other gets you excited, learning how to relate on just that level and
then touching each other and then holding each others hands and
interacting which finally culminates into physical intercourse when the
time comes finally in marriage.
If you are looking to be free from
emotional uncertainties and the trend of divorce of 7 out of every 10
marriages, miserable singles and married, broken relationships and
broken hearts in our world today, then you need to try something
different, say no to sex from the onset. It won't be easy, but you will
glad you did.
Opinions are gladly welcomed.
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